Frequently asked questions on Pregnancy

December 12th, 2005

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How does a woman become pregnant?
How can I prevent pregnancy?
Is there a “safe time” to have sexual intercourse?
If a man pulls his penis out before he comes or doesn’t put it in all the way, can a woman still get pregnant?
Can a woman become pregnant as a result of anal sex?
Can a woman become pregnant through oral sex if she swallows sperm?
Can sperm pass through clothes?
Are there any ways to tell if you are pregnant without using a pregnancy test?
How long should I wait before carrying out a pregnancy test?
The test result was negative, but my period still hasn’t arrived. Could I still be pregnant?
I’m pregnant! What can I do?
My question isn’t answered here. Where can I go?

 

How does a woman become pregnant?

A woman usually becomes pregnant after having sexual intercourse. This is where a man puts his erect penis inside a woman’s vagina. The friction caused by moving his penis in and out of her vagina will cause him to get increasingly excited until eventually he ejaculates (or ‘comes’) and releases a sticky white substance called semen. This semen contains millions of tiny sperm cells, which then swim up the woman’s vagina, into her uterus and into then fallopian tubes where they may join with the tiny egg that she releases every month. If this ‘joining’ (also known as fertilisation) occurs, then she will become pregnant.

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How can I prevent pregnancy?

If you don’t want to become pregnant, there are lots of different forms of contraception available. The most well known are the contraceptive pill and the condom.

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Is there a “safe time” to have sexual intercourse?

There is no safe time to have unprotected sex if you wish to avoid getting pregnant. Even unprotected sex during a girl’s period can result in pregnancy. Although women are generally only fertile for a few days every month, sperm can survive inside the body for several days, meaning a woman can potentially become pregnant over quite a long period of time. If she has irregular periods, “safe” days can be particularly difficult to predict. Some couples do use the so called ‘rhythm’ method as a form of contraception, but the success rate is not high, and it also offers no protection from STDs such as HIV.

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If a man pulls his penis out before he comes or doesn’t put it in all the way, can a woman still get pregnant?

Unfortunately even if a man doesn’t insert his penis all the way, or withdraws his penis before ejaculation, a woman can still become pregnant. This is because ‘pre-cum’ (the lubricating fluid leaks out of a man’s penis before and during sex) can contain sperm. If this fluid gets in or around a woman’s vagina, it can find its way inside, and she can become pregnant.

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Can a woman become pregnant as a result of anal sex?

No, a woman cannot become pregnant as a result of anal sex, although this is not the best way of avoiding pregnancy on a long term basis. It is better to use regular contraception such as the birth control pill or condoms. Anyone wanting to try anal intercourse should be 100% that their partner willing too, as the idea of anal sex makes many people very uncomfortable. It also carries a higher risk of transmission for HIV and other infections, so it is a good idea to use a condom if you do decide to try it.

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Can a woman become pregnant through oral sex if she swallows sperm?

No, a woman cannot become pregnant as a result of oral sex even if she swallows. A woman can only become pregnant if sperm get inside her vagina.

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Can sperm pass through clothes?

No, generally clothing acts as a barrier against sperm.

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Are there any ways to tell if you are pregnant without using a pregnancy test?

The first sign of pregnancy is usually a missed period. Other symptoms of pregnancy can include tender breasts, nausea and tiredness but not everybody experiences these. If you suspect you are pregnant you should take a pregnancy test. This can be done at a clinic, or you can buy a home testing kit from most major supermarkets and pharmacies. If you use a home test kit it is important to get the result confirmed by your doctor or healthcare professional at a local clinic.

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How long should I wait before carrying out a pregnancy test?

It depends on the type of test you buy. Most tests recommend testing on the day your period is due, although you can buy some that can detect the pregnancy hormone in your urine up to four or five days before this. Make sure you read the instructions thoroughly to find out how long you should wait. If you are not sure when your period is due, the best idea is to wait for at least a 10 days after having had unprotected sex before testing (although it is worth remembering that it can take up to nineteen days or more to show a positive result). If you get a negative result but your period still doesn’t arrive, you should test again at three-day intervals, until your period starts or you get a positive result. The sooner you find out you are pregnant, the sooner you can start thinking about what to do next.

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The test result was negative, but my period still hasn’t arrived. Could I still be pregnant?

If you have tested too soon (see above), then yes, you might still be pregnant. However if you are sure you haven’t tested too soon, then it may well be stress that has delayed your period. Worrying about pregnancy can send your stress hormones rocketing, and this can in turn interfere with your menstrual cycle. If you have lost or gained a lot of weight recently, have undertaken lots of vigorous exercise or you have irregular periods generally, these could also be to blame. Girls who have only recently started their periods often experience very irregular cycles too, so if you’ve only been menstruating for a couple of years or less, try not to panic! If your period is more than a week or two late when you’re normally regular however, you should probably think about seeing your doctor.

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I’m pregnant! What can I do?

If you were planning to get pregnant, then finding out you’re expecting a baby can be a wonderful surprise. However, if you weren’t, it is more likely to be a terrible shock. The most important thing to remember is that you are not alone, and you do have more than one option. The first thing you should do is go to your doctor or your local sexual health or family planning clinic. They will be able to discuss your options with you and help you to decide what to do next. Whether you decide to keep the baby, put it up for adoption or have an abortion, it’s essential that you do what’s right for you and don’t feel pressurised into making a decision.

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Introduction To Contraception

December 12th, 2005

Contraception is something used to prevent women getting pregnant. There is 12 different types of contraception which have been tested and approved.

Only two of these may protect from sexually transmitted diseases, which are the male and female condoms. Although both protect from STD’s the Male condom is more popular.

What are Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)?

December 12th, 2005

Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) are diseases that can be transmitted through body contact during sex. They are caused by viruses, bacteria and parasites. They can also be known as Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) or by their old name Venereal Diseases (VD). There are at least 25 different sexually transmitted diseases. What they all have in common is that they can be spread by sexual contact, including vagina, anal and oral sex. The diseases discussed on this page are not a comprehensive list of all STDs, simply the most common ones.

Non-specific urethritis (NSU)

December 12th, 2005

Non-specific urethritis (NSU) is an inflammation of a man’s urethra. This inflammation can be caused by several different types of infection, the most common being chlamydia.
Signs and symptoms

NSU may be experienced months or even in some cases years into a relationship. The symptoms of NSU may include:

* pain or a burning sensation when passing urine
* a white/cloudy fluid from the tip of the penis. This may be more noticeable first thing in the morning
* feeling that you need to pass urine frequently

Often there may be no symptoms, but this does not mean that you cannot pass the infection on to your partner(s).
How NSU develops

NSU is almost always caused through sexual infection. Very rarely it can result from an allergic reaction, such as to bubble baths or washing powders or other chemicals.
Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* Your own GP.
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Genital Warts

December 12th, 2005

Genital warts are small fleshy growths which may appear anywhere on a man or woman’s genital area. They are caused by a virus called human papilloma virus (HPV).

There are more than 60 different types of HPV. Some types cause warts to grow on the genitals, others cause warts to grow on different parts of the body, such as the hands.
Signs and symptoms

After you have been infected with the genital wart virus it usually takes between 1 and 3 months for warts to appear on your genitals.

You or your partner may notice pinkish/white small lumps or larger cauliflower-shaped lumps on the genital area. Warts can appear around the vulva, the penis, the scrotum or the anus. They may occur singly or in groups. They may itch, but are usually painless. Often there are no other symptoms, and the warts may be difficult to see. In women genital warts can develop inside the vagina and on the cervix. If a woman has warts on her cervix, this may cause slight bleeding or, very rarely, an unusual coloured vaginal discharge.

Not everyone who comes into contact with the virus will develop warts.
How genital warts are passed on

Genital warts are spread through skin-to-skin contact. If you have sex or genital contact with someone who has genital warts you may develop them too.

They can be passed on during vaginal or anal sex.

(It is possible for warts to spread to the area around the anus without having anal sex.)
Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* Your own GP.
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Genital Herpes

December 12th, 2005

Genital herpes is caused by the herpes simplex virus. The virus can affect the mouth, the genital area, the skin around the anus and the fingers. Once the first outbreak of herpes is over, the virus hides away in the nerve fibres, where it remains totally undetected and causes no symptoms.

However, in some people, genital herpes may come back (recur) on the skin surface, at or near the place where it was caught. This may be when the person is ill or run down. Some people never get another outbreak.
Types of the virus

There are two types of the genital herpes virus. Either type is infectious, but:

* Type I infects the mouth or nose. It is more likely to recur than if Type II infects this area
* Type II infects the genital and anal area, it is more likely to recur than if Type I infects this area.

Genital and anal infections used to always be caused by Type II, but Type I is becoming more common in these areas, because more people are having oral sex.
Signs and symptoms

Symptoms of the first infection usually appear one to 26 days after exposure and last two to three weeks. Both men and women may have one or more symptoms, including:

* an itching or tingling sensation in the genital or anal area
* small fluid-filled blisters. These burst and leave small sores which can be very painful. In time they dry out, scab over and heal. With the first infection they can take between 2 and 4 weeks to heal properly
* pain when passing urine, if it passes over any of the open sores
* a flu-like illness, backache, headache, swollen glands or fever.

At this time the virus is highly infectious.

Recurrent infections are usually milder. The sores are fewer, smaller, less painful and heal more quickly, and there are no flu-like symptoms.
How genital herpes is passed on

Genital herpes is passed on through skin contact with an infected person. The virus affects the areas where it enters the body. This can be by:

* kissing (mouth to mouth)
* penetrative sex (when the penis enters the vagina, mouth or anus)
* oral sex (from the mouth to the genitals).

At this time the virus is highly infectious.
Where to go for help

* Your local sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* Your own GP.
* The Herpes Viruses Association - for information and support for people who have herpes - tel. 0845 123 2305 (UK local rate).
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Heptatitis C

December 12th, 2005

How it’s spread

The hepatitis C virus (HCV) can be spread in the following ways:

* by sharing contaminated needles or other drug-injecting equipment. If you have ever shared drug-injecting equipment, you may want to be tested for hepatitis C
* by using non-sterilised equipment for tattooing, acupuncture or body piercing
* by unprotected sex which draws blood with someone who is infected. Also, if you have sex with an infected woman who is on her period, or if you have sex with someone who is infected and who has sores on their genitals that may bleed. Sexual transmission is not a common way of becoming infected with hepatitis C
* on rare occasions, from an infected mother to her baby, mainly during delivery. The risk may be greater if the mother is also infected with HIV
* through a blood transfusion in a country where blood is not tested for the hepatitis C virus. All blood for transfusion in the UK is tested.
* by sharing notes used to snort cocaine.

Signs and symptoms

People may have no symptoms at all, but they can still pass on the virus to others. Symptoms, though not common, may include:

* a short, mild, flu-like illness
* nausea and vomiting
* diarrhoea
* loss of appetite
* weight loss
* jaundice (yellow skin and whites of eyes, darker yellow urine and pale faeces)
* itchy skin.

Some people may need to be admitted to hospital.

Current evidence suggests that only about 20% of individuals who have been infected with the hepatitis C virus appear to clear the virus from the blood, whilst about 80% will remain infected and can pass on the virus to others. If a person continues to be infected over a number of years with the hepatitis C virus, they could develop the following complications:

* chronic hepatitis
* liver cirrhosis
* liver cancer.

Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any NHS clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics do not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* A hospital Accident and Emergency department.
* Your own GP
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Heptatitis B

December 12th, 2005

How it’s spread

The hepatitis B virus (HBV) is very common worldwide. It is very infectious.

The virus can be spread in the following ways:

* by unprotected (without a condom) penetrative sex (when the penis enters the anus, vagina or mouth) with someone who is infected. Also by sex which draws blood with someone who is infected
* by sharing contaminated needles or other drug-injecting equipment
* by using non-sterilised equipment for tattooing, acupuncture or body piercing
* from an infected mother to her baby, mainly during delivery. Immunisation of the baby at birth prevents the transmission of hepatitis B
* through a blood transfusion in a country where blood is not tested for the hepatitis B virus. All blood for transfusion in the UK is tested.

Signs and symptoms

People may have no symptoms at all, but they can still pass on the virus to others. Symptoms may include:

* a short, mild, flu-like illness
* nausea and vomiting
* diarrhoea
* loss of appetite
* weight loss
* jaundice (yellow skin and whites of eyes, darker yellow urine and pale faeces)
* itchy skin.

Some people may need to be admitted to hospital.

Most adults infected with the hepatitis B virus fully recover and develop life-long immunity. Between 2% and 10% of individuals infected as adults will become chronic carriers, which means they will be infectious to others and can develop chronic liver damage. Infected children, especially new-born babies, are much more likely to become chronic carriers.

If a person continues to be infected over a number of years with the hepatitis B virus, they could develop the following complications:

* chronic hepatitis
* liver cirrhosis
* liver cancer.

Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any NHS clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)

If appropriate, these services may refer you to a hepatologist or specialist gastroenterologist.
* A hospital Accident and Emergency department
* Your own GP
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Heptatitis A

December 12th, 2005


How it’s spread

The hepatitis A virus (HAV) is a common infection in many parts of the world. It is possible to become infected through eating or drinking contaminated food or water.

The hepatitis virus is found in faeces. It can be passed on if even a tiny amount of faeces from a person with hepatitis A comes into contact with another person’s mouth.

This means the virus can also be passed on sexually through practices such as rimming. Personal hygiene, with careful hand washing, can minimise the risk of the virus being passed on.
Signs and symptoms

People may have no symptoms at all, but they can still pass on the hepatitis virus to others. Symptoms may include:

* a short, mild, flu-like illness
* nausea and vomiting
* diarrhoea
* loss of appetite
* weight loss
* jaundice (yellow skin and whites of eyes, darker yellow urine and pale faeces)
* itchy skin.

Some people may need to be admitted to hospital.
Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any NHS clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.

Syphilis

December 12th, 2005

Signs and symptoms

The signs and symptoms of syphilis are the same in both men and women. They can be difficult to recognise and may take up to 3 months to show after having sexual contact with an infected person. Syphilis has several stages. The primary and secondary stages are very infectious.
Primary stage

One or more painless sores appear at the place where the syphilis bacteria entered the body. On average, this will be after 21 days. You may not notice them.

These sores can appear anywhere on the body but mainly:

* on the vulva (lips of the vagina), the clitoris and around the opening of the urethra (the water passage)
* on the cervix (neck of the womb) in women and on the penis and foreskin in men
* around the anus and mouth (both sexes)

The sore (or sores) is very infectious and may take from 2 to 6 weeks to heal.
Secondary stage

If the syphilis infection remains untreated the secondary stage usually occurs 3 to 6 weeks after the appearance of sores. The symptoms include:

* a non-itchy rash covering the whole body or appearing in patches
* flat, warty-looking growths on the vulva in women and around the anus in both sexes
* a flu-like illness, a feeling of tiredness and loss of appetite, accompanied by swollen glands (this can last for weeks or months)
* white patches on the tongue or roof of the mouth
* patchy hair loss

When these symptoms are present, syphilis is very infectious and may be sexually transmitted to a partner.

Treatment at any time during these first two stages of syphilis will cure the infection.
Latent stage

Latent syphilis refers to the presence of untreated syphilis. You can have no symptoms or signs of the infection, which is diagnosed by a positive blood test. If left untreated, you may develop symptomatic late syphilis. This would usually develop after more than 10 years. It is then that syphilis can affect the heart, and possibly the nervous system.

If treatment for syphilis is given during the latent stage the infection can be cured. However, if there has been heart or nervous-system damage before treatment is started this may be irreversible.
How syphilis is passed on

Syphilis can be transmitted by:

* having sex with someone who has the infection
* a mother to her unborn baby

Where to go for help

* Your local NHS sexual health (GUM) clinic.

You can find details of your nearest NHS sexual health clinic in the phone book under genito-urinary medicine (GUM), sexually transmitted diseases (STD) or venereal diseases (VD). Or phone your local hospital and ask for the ’special’ or GUM clinic. Our help and advice page links to websites which can tell you where to find your nearest clinic.

You will get free, confidential advice and treatment. You can go to any clinic anywhere in the country - you don’t have to go to a local one - and you don’t have to be referred by your GP. (Non-NHS sexual health clinics may not always offer the full range of services which are available at NHS sexual health clinics.)
* Your own GP.
* If you are in the UK, go to www.playingsafely.co.uk to find details of STD clinics.